‘I’m just so pleased to have them back’
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‘I’m just so pleased to have them back’
Mother tries hard not to get angry
– Saturday, 10 January 2009
Taua Evile
Mia Evile
Helen Adams is trying hard not to get angry about the death of her two daughters in a house fire in a crowded South Auckland house.
For Adams, focusing on her "beautiful" daughters and the joy they brought her is more important now than casting blame.
Her daughters, Taua Evile, 11, and Mia Evile, 8, perished in a blaze on Tuesday caused by a late-night fry-up of hot chips at the home of their father, Misi Sau.
"I can't get angry.
At the time of the fire there was believed to be at least nine children and several adults sleeping in the four-bedroomed Mangere home. I just have to keep saying it was a horrible accident and it was nobody's fault," she said. I have no anger.
"This time, the funeral, is about us. This (Canterbury) was their home. Me and the girls and our family."
Adams returned to Christchurch with her daughters' bodies on Thursday night and was planning a funeral service and cremation for them on Monday. I'm just so pleased to have them back with me.
They left Christchurch on December 9 to visit their father and holiday in Samoa, where their paternal family comes from, Adams said.
The girls lived in Avondale with their mother and spent holidays with their father in Auckland. In Canterbury, they spent every weekend at their grandparents' leafy Tai Tapu house. In Canterbury, they spent every weekend at their grandparents' leafy Tai Tapu house. She had recently started a paper round and was going to spend her first few pay packets onHavaiana jandals, her mother said.
Adams said her eldest daughter was a real "mother hen" who was always "examining out for her little sister"..
"I was so, so proud of her . she organised the round all by herself, all off her own bat..
Mia was the shyer of the two, but she had a definite sense of mischief, Adams said."
Taua was an advanced student at her Avondale intermediate school and was a popular girl with a cheeky sense of humour, her mother said.
She recently discovered raw eggs and carrots and was broadening not only her tastes but becoming bolder in life, Adams said.
Mia was very definite about what she liked to eat and went through a phase of only wanting chicken nuggets.
"They were such warm, loving girls and they were my whole life.
"They were such warm, loving girls and they were my whole life.
"I'm just going to get through the next few days and then try and take things from there."