Grief counselling at Dargaville school
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A grief counsellor has arrived at Dargaville Primary School, as anxious parents seek guidance on how they handle the death of a 10-year-old pupil.
Oliver Nicolson, known to family and friends as Little Ollie, was found dead at his home yesterday morning after an incident with a firearm. Parents had also contacted the school to ask how they should speak with their children about what had happened.
Dargaville Primary School principal Alan Russek said a grief counsellor was now at the school to help staff and students that needed it.
“The children didn’t have much to say, they were quite quiet actually.
Children at the school, particularly those in Oliver’s class, were upset by the tragedy, Mr Russek said.. They were very reserved . not quite as bubbly as they normally were..
“We’re monitoring the staff and their reaction as well as the students. Some of the boys are a little bit upset,” he said.”
Oliver’s teacher had been hit particularly hard by the tragedy, Mr Russek said. Our main concern is with those groups of people.
Oliver was the youngest of four children to Mrs Nicolson and her husband, Laurie Nicolson, with whom he shared a special bond.
FAMILY REACTION
Talking of their “sensitive sweetheart” who they will dearly miss, Oliver’s family said he had wagged school on Friday because he had not done his homework and “was worried about being told off”.
However, yesterday morning he had not wanted to go to school. Over Labour Weekend, Oliver had made a remote control holder for his school showday and had a couple of friends over to visit.
“She came down the stairs screaming”. The Nicolsons say Oliver’s 14-year-old sister, Sarah, went to get him because the family was waiting. “Ammunition was in a [separate] cupboard right up high, it would have been hard for him to reach,” Mrs Nicolson said. . Although he had been quiet and reserved in the past, in recent months he had been “particularly confident and happy”.
Mrs Nicolson said she had tried talking to her son about bullying but, “he never opened up about it”.”
NO PROBLEMS AT SCHOOL
Mr Russek said Oliver was a quiet child and he had not noticed any change in his behaviour recently.”
NO PROBLEMS AT SCHOOL
Mr Russek said Oliver was a quiet child and he had not noticed any change in his behaviour recently.
“He had that close group of friends that he played with and mixed with them most of the time. He never had run-ins with kids that we are aware of. He never was involved in fights or anything like that.”