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‘Air NZ family’ gathers at Canet beach
– Wednesday, 03 December 2008
Fairfax
SAD GATHERING: Families of the crash victims and Air New Zealand staff hold a simple ceremony, including a waiata, on Canet beach. ‘This will be a special place for the rest of our lives,’ airline chief executive Rob Fyfe said.
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It wasa poignant piece of New Zealand on a Mediterranean beach. All seven people on board died, five of them New Zealanders.
Just five days earlier, an Air New Zealand Airbus A320 had smashed into the Mediterranean Sea seven kilometres off the coast of France. For a short time it was ours.
Canet beach, beneath the snow capped Pyrenees, is better known for its summer influx of the rich and famous.
Relatives of the crash victims and Air New Zealand officials arrived at the beach by bus yesterday afternoon. Citizens paused along the foreshore and on the breakwater to respectfully watch the sad huddle of people. A big squad of gendarmes were there. Remains of three people have been recovered, but hope is slim that the others will be found.
In an eerie moment, an A320 plane flew across, going over the site on the horizon in which the remains of the aircraft, and most of the dead, lie. "This will be a special place for the rest of our lives.
Air New Zealand chief executive Rob Fyfe told the gathering they would all now be connected to the beach."
Cultural adviser Andrew Baker spoke briefly in Maori and then, alone, sang a waiata."
Cultural adviser Andrew Baker spoke briefly in Maori and then, alone, sang a waiata.
As the "Air New Zealand family", as they now like to call themselves, moved from the beach up to the port, some scooped Canet sand into bags. We were all tangata whenua on that beach. The lifeboat crews had been among the first to reach the wreckage last week.
They boarded two volunteer lifeboats and were taken out to sea, to the spot that is now officially a crime scene, to cast flowers on the water.
Earlier, Mr Fyfe and two family members spoke of the losses.
Air New Zealand staff members performed a haka at the site. "I feel I really needed to do it for myself and him, I wanted to bring Murray home," she said, and then her voice trailed away, "but perhaps not".
Emma Gould, of Auckland, who lost her partner Murray White, began to say how important it was to bring Murray home. "I have come to that reality.
Bill Marsh, of Invercargill, whose engineer son Noel Marsh died, said he was accepting that they may return to New Zealand with nothing."
His son had just built a new home in Christchurch and Mr Marsh and his wife were ready last Friday to help the family move."
His son had just built a new home in Christchurch and Mr Marsh and his wife were ready last Friday to help the family move. Then they heard of the air crash and knew Noel had probably gone.
Now their main aim was to take their son home if they could.
Noel's pregnant wife, Tracey, was examining after the couple's two young children and could not come to Canet beach.
"It was her wish that we visit the site."
Mr Marsh said the flight to France had been the longest of his life. It was comfortable and he slept, but like other members of the families "you still have your moments, and at one point we all woke up blubbing our eyes out".
Often, in the past, as others experienced tragedy, he had reflected on how lucky his family was. Then this.
"Losing a son is something different again – you never expect to bury your own children, and that is the hardest thing in our lives."
Last year, Noel had written a long list of things that needed to be done before his family was ready to move into their new home.
At the top he wrote that when he died he wanted his organs donated and his body to be cremated.
Mr Marsh praised the way Air New Zealand had looked after the families.
Ms Gould said she had not hesitated about getting on a plane and coming to France. "What's happened to our guys is a freak accident. On our journey, we did have a few laughs. That was important to me because Murray and I felt the funny side of life. Murray was always smiling."
Most of the photos she had of Murray and herself had been on his laptop computer which went down with the plane.
"As my brother pointed out, the photos have gone with Murray. .
Like the Marsh family, she and her partner had been building a home and were close toly ready to move in.
"I've lost parents, but I did not expect to be on my own at 34 like this. I've got a long and lonely road ahead … I am gutted that I've lost my soul mate, that my stepson has lost his father, who was his ultimate, my kids have lost out on a step father.
"Murray's parents have lost a special part of their unit. I am not angry, yet. I probably will be, at some stage."